Born: March 1, 1825, Olive Township, Ulster County, New York, or Chester, New Jersey.
Died: March 24, 1887, Chester, New Jersey.
Buried: Pleasant Hill Cemetery, Chester, New Jersey.
Alonzo was the son of David Abbey and Nancy Farnham, and brother of Horatio Abbey. He married twice: to Margaret Rutledge (1848) and Mary Elizabeth Topping (1862).
Abbey taught music for several years, and was a music publisher.
If you know where to get a good photo of Abbey (head-and-shoulders, at least 200×300 pixels),